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Difficult Conversations: The “Doorbell” Strategy

Posted on October 8, 2015 by kathrynford

Difficult conversations epitomize the concept of crisis as a moment of risk as well as opportunity.  Much of the quality of relationships is determined by how well we handle difficult conversations.  Handled well, they further trust and intimacy; handled poorly, … Continue reading →

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Repair After Injury

Posted on March 13, 2015 by kathrynford

We are not able to dance closely without sometimes stepping on each other’s toes, trampling or loosing track of each other. And attachment research tells us that secure attachments happen in relationships where there is connection, then disruption of connection, … Continue reading →

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